Survival of the Fitbit-est

It’s raining outside. Not just raining: pouring down. It’s been doing that for 24 hours. The rest of the country is being washed out to sea and the DIY fanatic next door seems to be building something…

So I’m going out for a walk.

No, I’m not going to get wet. I’m going to get drenched. Soaked by the time I reach the pub on the corner. My coat’s still wet from the dog walk and my waterproof shoes aren’t anymore.

But I’m going. Because I owe it to my wife.

It’s the least I can do.

Rewind the clock 24 hours. To Christmas morning. My wife hands me my last present. “Happy Christmas,” she smiles.

A small parcel. Maybe six inches long. Cuboid? Is that right?

My presents so far suggest I’m a man who sits around reading while drinking too much red wine and eating too much cheese.

Spot on. So I’m feeling pleased with life. But what can this be? I shake it. No sound.

“Read the clue,” she says. No more telling porkies about numbers. The truth will out.

Porkies? Numbers? “What is this? Something that sits on my desk and counts how many bacon sandwiches I have?”


I shake it again. Still nothing. And then a light bulb goes on above my head. “Ah… Thank you, darling. A Fitbit. I really wanted one.” And who says romance is dead? I cross the room and kiss her in front of our traumatised children.

“So it’ll record how many steps I take? I’ll have to go the long way to the bacon sandwich shop.”

“You’re supposed to do 10,000 steps a day,” Jessica says.

So I’d heard. And I’d worked it out. Who had time to walk for two hours? “I won’t get anywhere near that.”

“Take the dog out, Dad. Fasten it to her collar.”

“Awesome! Brilliant plan.”

“Except it records your heart rate as well.”

Damn it. Thirty minutes on the dog and all my targets would have been met…

But the Fitbit, it appeared, was my friend.

“Look at this,” I said triumphantly when I’d finally set it up. “I’ve already used 945 calories. And I haven’t eaten anything.”

“Shouldn’t you tell it about the chocolate twist and toast you had for breakfast?”

“I don’t want to wear the batteries out. Besides, I’m checking my heart rate now.”

A thought occurred to me. After more than twenty years of marriage I should have known better, but it wandered carelessly out through my mouth. “I’ll need to wear it when, you know… When the children are asleep…”

I smiled seductively. Or what I fondly imagined was seductively.


“It’ll check my maximum heart rate.”

“It may have escaped your attention, dearest, but I’m your wife – not a research tool.” Yep, definitely a mistake.

“I’ve set a weight loss target,” I said, desperately trying to retrieve my brownie points.

“How much?”

“Eleven kilos. Nearly two stone in old money.”

“So you’ll be giving up red wine and cheese?” I mentally flipped through my New Year’s resolutions. Nope, that one was definitely missing.

“I’ll be exercising more,” I said defiantly.

Starting now. What else could I do? Sometimes marriage demands sacrifice. This was mine: a moral duty to come home looking like I’d jumped in the sea.

I opened the front door. “Hell’s bells. It’s like the waterfall scene in Last of the Mohicans.”

“Stay alive,” my wife replied. “I will find you. No matter how wet you are…”

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  1. I got a Fitbit from my wife too. 10 days in and I’ve hit 10,000 daily steps twice. You do get points for effort though, right?

    • Well that’s twice more than me. Congratulations. About 8,500 is the best I’ve managed. And it refuses to recognise when I’m asleep. I must be doing something wrong as I appear to die around 11pm every night and be reincarnated (same body, sadly) at 6 the next morning…

  2. Watch out for Storm Frank heading in tomorrow. Could be the perfect excuse to hoover up some more Christmas leftovers and give the Fitbit a day off. Happy New Year.

    • No, never! Long walk on the beach today, Izzie, and closing in on those mythical 10,000 steps! May be watching the Sopranos tonight (no spoilers, please…) marching up and down the lounge! And a very happy New Year to you – hope 2016 brings you everything you want

  3. Ha ha brilliant! I bought my husband one for Christmas too and he really is becoming the Fitbit bore – all very entertaining though!

    • What? Husband gets a new toy and bores wife senseless by talking about it all the time? First time I’ve ever heard of that happening…

  4. Good luck! It’s the worst possible weather to start a new exercise routine, but anything else will be a doddle after this! I must admit I’ve been quite tempted by a Fitbit, but I just rely on the step counter on my phone.

    • Morning, Sarah. It’s like your conscience nagging away at you! Been writing this morning, but the Fitbit is lying next to me whispering, “It’s not raining. 2.2 miles round the sea-front. How many of those lovely steps would that be…”

  5. Ah you are a lucky bugger – this was on my christmas list, but that obviously got used as fire lighter because my christmas present pile was low to non existent!! Let us know how you get on with it, I’ve upgraded my wish list to the fitbit surge now anyway. Although it may have to be a present to myself as i can’t seem to find the list anymore. Oh hang on, the fires just been lit…

    • Morning – I’ve got a Charge HR. Have to say I’m quite impressed so far, although I’m only using about 10% of its capabilities at the moment. It’s going to force me to go for a walk. I mean there’s football on the TV and that cold meat and left-over stuffing calling to me. But no, I daren’t report a day with virtually no steps…

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